Dear default. It sounds to me like you are over-thinking this whole issue. The best way to soften the ride a bit, but withough compromising anythjing important would be to take Speedtek's advise re going to the slightly wider tyre and slightly higher sidewall, (ie, the 225/55R17s), look to keep the tyres about 30-32 psi, and then just live with it. None of the other things you've suggested make good sense. Sorry, but I'm being deliberately blunt here - but it all might and up costing far more, possibly compromising your warranty, and end up being money wasted with no detectable gain. That includes messing with the shock absorbers, (ok, dampers, if you like), going for a smaller diameter wheel, (costly) and especially gear ratios, to change which is not possible. And the economy of these Seltos is pretty damned good if driven sensibly by anyone's standards. I have my 235/45/R18s around 38psi, (ie put them up to 40 when I top them up, and allow them to slowly come down to 36). The ride is still fine. Peace brother, and listen to what others have said.